Honor can be defined in many ways.
- It can be defined as a good sense of what is right, just, and true.
- It can also be defined as strict conformity to the duty imposed to conscience, position or privilege.
- In some other cases, it is just defined as fame or reputation of the man holding it.
In any angle we look at its definitions, we can say that this attribute of man is considered the basis of a well-respectable man.
If we’ll be using this “honor” (word) to be as an adjective for a person, it can be expressed as honorable. To be given this adjective usually depends to the people around you. As said earlier, it is the reputation of the person; therefore, one must have a good reputation before having to be described as “honorable”.
As I ravel the pages of a beautiful epic named Illiad, I saw the situation between Menelaos and Paris. Those two quarrels over a woman, named Helen. Menelaos is a very strong Achaian and is the husband of Helen. Paris, who came from Troy, brought Helen to his homeland. A clash between their countries is supposed to happen, but the leaders of their countries decided that the two are the ones that should fight, as a representative of their countries and as a battle of whom Helen should join.
Their fight went somehow like this: (not the real fight, but the scenes in the book are close to the movie “Troy”)
- From the movie "Troy"
Just to clear things up, Menelaos did not die and Paris did not ran to his brother’s knees in the book. Going back to the topic, in this fight, we can see that Paris is overwhelmed by the strength of Menelaos. Even Though Paris, escaped from the fight, everyone can conclude that Menelaos is stronger than Paris.
Anyways, what does honor relate to those two guys I have said earlier? Well, I just want to compare who is more honorable between the two. So let us analyze this by using our definition of the word “Honor”. Paris carried Helen away from her husband and brought her to Troy. This act of his, made his brother, Hector, be mad at him. Using these two incidents, Paris broke the first rule and the third rule. Paris was wrong in his adultery and through this; his reputation to his brother went down. So it is minus 2 “honor points” for Paris. Menelaos appeared that he won his fight with Paris, so his reputation with his people went up. A good plus 1 “honor point” for Menelaos! Using our “honor points” and the books 1 - 5 as a basis, we can conclude that Menelaos is more honorable than Paris.

But wait! Based on the prologue of Illiad, Paris was chosen by the three great greek goddesses, Athena, Hera and Aphrodite to choose of whom of the three is the most beautiful. Paris chooses Aphrodite and as a reward, Aphrodite gives Paris the most beautiful woman in the world and that woman is Helen. So what am I pointing to?
The three Godesses chose Paris because he is a man that is noble or good enough to be the judge for their competition, that means Paris holds such great honor. It is not Paris’ fault if he trusted Aphrodite too much, that he didn’t thought that Helen had a husband. Aphrodite is a goddess, even if I am in Paris’ shoes, I’ll trust the words of a goddess. So using the point of view of a god, Paris is more honorable than Menelaus. Since it is the point of view of a god,
Paris is the winner overall.
Just to add something, I see that the situation of Paris is
relatively the same as the situation of our incumbent Chief Justice Renato Corona. Just like Paris, he was appointed by a high ranking person and his reputation got bad due to some conspiracy theories that came out. It is not also Corona’s fault that he was the one that was appointed by the president to be the Chief Justice. Yes, he can reject the offer, but why waste the chance? Anyways, I just wanted to share my idea on this one.
So as to end this blog post, honor is not totally measured using the physical and visual things that are present in a person, but also his works and his thoughts that are hidden from everyone’s eyes. Thank you for reading this blog post and I hope you’ll still be with me for another of my exciting blog post!